Headshot of Jared Lucas, former DJ (Kap Slap) and current Choice Coach.

End the inner battle.

Choose with Clarity.

For founders, creatives, and high-achievers at real choice points in health, wealth, and relationships.

A man sitting on grass, gazing at snow-capped mountains in the distance under cloudy skies.

You’ve thought it through.

You’ve journaled, talked to friends, made pros-and-cons lists.

And still… no clarity.

A part of you wants to stay. Another wants to leave.

One part says play it safe. Another says leap.

Meanwhile, time passes — and the pressure builds.

The truth is: you’re not broken.

You’re just not making choices from your whole self yet.

You’re Stuck.

A solitary tree on a grassy field with fog in the background.

I help you uncover the win-win choice — where the next step becomes obvious.

from torn and stuck → To aligned and unstoppable

Person jogging on an empty road in a mountainous landscape with snow-capped peaks in the background.

before

— inner conflict

— Double Binds

— Fear of a wrong move

After

— deep clarity

— Obvious next Step

— Life back in flow

  • “Jared takes you directly to the deepest parts of yourself so you can communicate with your truest wisdom and heal fast with no translation needed. Skip years of lost-in-translation talk therapy—go straight to the source.”

    Corey Hunter

  • “Every single session with Jared unlocks something unexpected and profound. It’s remarkable. So glad I found him.”

    Mitch Kochanski

  • “I’ve developed powerful internal metaphors for understanding parts of my personality that have given me confidence in making difficult decisions and dealing with uncertainty. Thank you so much, Jared!”

    David Shimel

  • “I had one of the most powerful sessions of my life with Jared. He followed the process but also let his intuition lead, which led to an energetic release and breakthrough. I’m still feeling it a week later!”

    Lou Redmond

  • “I’m learning from Jared how to accept myself and bring warmth and softness and gentle kindness into my own body. And be at rest. I’m relearning deep yes and how to navigate the throes; I’m seeing what it could be like to believe in myself, to have faith that I will succeed, that it’s okay to say YES.”

    Sofia-Jeanne Caring

Kap Slap at Made in America Festival, 2017.

I’ve walked this path

Before I became The Choice Coach, I was a successful DJ living in Los Angeles.

From the outside, everything looked great. But on the inside, I was misaligned.

So I made a series of difficult but liberating choices:

  1. Retired from my career

  2. Ended a relationship that no longer fit

  3. Moved back home to reset my life

In that quiet year, I practiced an inner process called Unfoldment — and rediscovered who I was meant to be.

Now, I guide others through their own choice points.

Not from a pedestal.

From lived experience.

Clarity is a discipline — not a guess

  • Even when it feels like you're stuck between two bad options, there is always a choice that honors everyone involved, including all parts of yourself. This isn’t wishful thinking — it’s a principle I work by: there is always a choice that honors everyone involved. The win-win path may be hidden under fear, conditioning, or urgency, but it exists. And when you align with it, you move in integrity — with clarity, without guilt, and with deeper peace.

  • Aligned choices don’t just solve the moment — they build momentum. When you choose from a place of clarity and integration, the next right choice becomes more visible. You start to experience flow, synchronicity, and inner coherence. The path of right action for your life reveals itself not as a single leap, but as a living sequence of choices that reinforce one another.

  • Feeling torn, trapped, or unclear isn’t failure — it’s feedback. The tension you feel is a signpost, not a dead end. Misalignment shows you where you've lost touch with what’s truly yours to do. When you stop resisting the discomfort and get curious, you’ll find that even pain points toward the path. Life is always inviting you back into integrity.

let’s find your next right step

I offer one-on-one coaching for individuals at major choice points.

Our work together helps you move from fragmentation to flow, from indecision to inner knowing.

Book a free Discovery Call to see if we are a good fit.